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		<title>Comment on About by gayle pierce</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 02:13:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Susan. I am a student and writing a research paper about the effect of mental illness on families. I would like to use the stages information off this website but need to be able to cite it correctly. I need to find an author and publication date. Any ideas?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Susan. I am a student and writing a research paper about the effect of mental illness on families. I would like to use the stages information off this website but need to be able to cite it correctly. I need to find an author and publication date. Any ideas?</p>
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		<title>Comment on If I&#8217;d Only Known by Jackie</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jackie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 06:42:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mr Keyfauver is nothing more than narsistic fool]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mr Keyfauver is nothing more than narsistic fool</p>
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		<title>Comment on Book Reviews by KAMELA BURRIS</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[KAMELA BURRIS]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 16:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[MY SON  HAS ARTISUM LIVING WITH HIS CONDITION IS A LOT I WOULD LIKE TO START MY BOOK OF ON HIM WHERE DO I START]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MY SON  HAS ARTISUM LIVING WITH HIS CONDITION IS A LOT I WOULD LIKE TO START MY BOOK OF ON HIM WHERE DO I START</p>
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		<title>Comment on Book Reviews by KAMELA BURRIS</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[KAMELA BURRIS]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 16:09:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I HAVE A SPECIAL NEEDS ARTISUM ADULT CHILD IT HAS BEEN HELL AND BACK LIVING FOR THE TWO OF US. I WANT TO WRITE A BOOK ABOUT MY SON.WHERE DO I START]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I HAVE A SPECIAL NEEDS ARTISUM ADULT CHILD IT HAS BEEN HELL AND BACK LIVING FOR THE TWO OF US. I WANT TO WRITE A BOOK ABOUT MY SON.WHERE DO I START</p>
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		<title>Comment on If I&#8217;d Only Known by MT</title>
		<link>http://family-4-family.com/2011/01/11/if-id-only-known/#comment-409</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MT]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 04:03:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello the fact that the case in Family court in Maricopa county is public record it is FN2010-050940 and the evidence of Mr. Keyfauvers infidelities and expenses to addiction  to young strippers can be found and is public record attached to all of the court documents you will find Mr.Keyfauver is a listed liar and that his wife was disposed of in the mental health system as Gary solicited whores  around Central Phoenix !

The entire file is found in Maricipa county superior court and still in litigation as Mr. Keyfauver Gently weeps over his loss of 401k

He also has had no interaction with counseling with   a wife and kids for 20 years as she was married to Me.Keyfauver until Lori&#039;s  brother passed away and Gary flew off the handle as Lori his Mebtally Ill wife was accepting her doctor place her in 2005 on lexipro!

Gary discovered that Lori was taking medication to help her as Gary was outraged she consider psychiatric drugs to help her cope with anything as he displayed continually mental abuse! 

Unfortunately in this case the whole situation is not fully explained as Mr. Keyfauver chooses yes to only discuss what he chooses to discuss to polish his image ! 

I&#039;m sorry that the blog has been overly abused by this topic and that Gary so chose to polish his image as he had plenty of extra marital affairs during his marriage ! 

Mr. Keyfauver is targets the media as he is loosing what I&#039;d say is fair in a 20 years marriage as they split their assets ! Gary choses to play the victim in this matter never to aid or help in any form just when you were caught spending huge amounts of money decide on an exit plan of the 20 yr marriage ! Sad  that you Gary  basically used a system to dispose of your wife but never used the system to help her during your marriage only to exit (she needed help apparently as well as you need the help!) 

Signed,
MT]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello the fact that the case in Family court in Maricopa county is public record it is FN2010-050940 and the evidence of Mr. Keyfauvers infidelities and expenses to addiction  to young strippers can be found and is public record attached to all of the court documents you will find Mr.Keyfauver is a listed liar and that his wife was disposed of in the mental health system as Gary solicited whores  around Central Phoenix !</p>
<p>The entire file is found in Maricipa county superior court and still in litigation as Mr. Keyfauver Gently weeps over his loss of 401k</p>
<p>He also has had no interaction with counseling with   a wife and kids for 20 years as she was married to Me.Keyfauver until Lori&#8217;s  brother passed away and Gary flew off the handle as Lori his Mebtally Ill wife was accepting her doctor place her in 2005 on lexipro!</p>
<p>Gary discovered that Lori was taking medication to help her as Gary was outraged she consider psychiatric drugs to help her cope with anything as he displayed continually mental abuse! </p>
<p>Unfortunately in this case the whole situation is not fully explained as Mr. Keyfauver chooses yes to only discuss what he chooses to discuss to polish his image ! </p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry that the blog has been overly abused by this topic and that Gary so chose to polish his image as he had plenty of extra marital affairs during his marriage ! </p>
<p>Mr. Keyfauver is targets the media as he is loosing what I&#8217;d say is fair in a 20 years marriage as they split their assets ! Gary choses to play the victim in this matter never to aid or help in any form just when you were caught spending huge amounts of money decide on an exit plan of the 20 yr marriage ! Sad  that you Gary  basically used a system to dispose of your wife but never used the system to help her during your marriage only to exit (she needed help apparently as well as you need the help!) </p>
<p>Signed,<br />
MT</p>
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		<title>Comment on If I&#8217;d Only Known by Gary</title>
		<link>http://family-4-family.com/2011/01/11/if-id-only-known/#comment-403</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Gary]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 06:36:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Susan, I don&#039;t know for sure who posted the comment on December 19, 2011.  My comment pointed out problems with the behavioral health system in Arizona and wasn&#039;t directed at any specific individual.  The criticisms certaintly wouldn&#039;t &quot;polish my image&quot; with the state health agency or their providers.  They pointed out a problem or problems which, if addressed, would help everyone involved - family members as well as the patients.  

However, the Dec. 19th comments fit what would be expected from any individual suffering from a severe personality disorder.  If a PD individual perceives others are hurting them, they may strike out with physical violence, verbal abuse, or hurtful rumors spread to family and friends.  This is a well known characteristic of these disorders, often called &quot;distortion campaigns&quot; directed toward their &quot;targets&quot; which can be a family member, friend, and even a therapist, judge, or police officer - anyone who currently may be a threat to their idea of reality.

The PD patient can&#039;t see their own role in their daily life problems so they focus their problems and blame on a specific person or persons.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Susan, I don&#8217;t know for sure who posted the comment on December 19, 2011.  My comment pointed out problems with the behavioral health system in Arizona and wasn&#8217;t directed at any specific individual.  The criticisms certaintly wouldn&#8217;t &#8220;polish my image&#8221; with the state health agency or their providers.  They pointed out a problem or problems which, if addressed, would help everyone involved &#8211; family members as well as the patients.  </p>
<p>However, the Dec. 19th comments fit what would be expected from any individual suffering from a severe personality disorder.  If a PD individual perceives others are hurting them, they may strike out with physical violence, verbal abuse, or hurtful rumors spread to family and friends.  This is a well known characteristic of these disorders, often called &#8220;distortion campaigns&#8221; directed toward their &#8220;targets&#8221; which can be a family member, friend, and even a therapist, judge, or police officer &#8211; anyone who currently may be a threat to their idea of reality.</p>
<p>The PD patient can&#8217;t see their own role in their daily life problems so they focus their problems and blame on a specific person or persons.</p>
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		<title>Comment on If I&#8217;d Only Known by Garys wife's sister !!!</title>
		<link>http://family-4-family.com/2011/01/11/if-id-only-known/#comment-394</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Garys wife's sister !!!]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 08:57:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gary Keyfauver,

Just  going around participating in mental illness committees to polish your image I&#039;d say a bit too late ! 
 The truth is Gary had thrown  my sister in a mental onsititiin 3-4 times as he  had  an affair at 58 years old (the girl was the same age as their daughter (20yrs old!) 

The girl was a stripper and Gary -SHAME on you! 

Respect your family and stop this cover up mentality blogging sympathic words as you really spent around 43,000.00 to then dispose of a wife 16 years your Junior !

To everyone on this blog ! Gary Lee Keyfauver had an extratial affair and chose to have sexual relations with a girl that was a 20 yr old stripper !
At his age he spent in godly amounts of money to trade in his 3rd wife !
1. Mary Joann - was his first 10yrs
2. Sharon Kay - was his second 7yrs
3. My sister was the 3rd victim -20 yrs

  My sister was married to him from the young age of 23! She had a mental breakdown due to a Gary really having a sexual affair for 2 years! 

They delegated he filed for divorce as she was institutionalized by HIM 3 -4 times as he tormented her ( she had tape recorded the cruel mental abuse and it&#039;s needless to say still in litigation ! 

Gary -Was laid off but lied to the court indicating that it was his wife&#039;s fault he was let go from his work! 
He&#039;s pathetic she is on disability and is really not healthy and has liver failure!

He had taken their titles to their vehicles changed out titles files for order of protcrection and a division had been placed with my sisters children ! 

My sister has 3 children her son was I
Deployed as Gary placed her in an institution as she caught him cheating ! 

This man is only airing to polish his image!

Please refrain from doing that as my sister I&#039;d say unhealthy as she was placed by Gary 3-4 times because she wanted to just take her life! To now have liver failure and Is on disability and he had caused her to loose her job in 2010!

He refuses to basically settle their youngest is 20yrs old and had already ran a year ago to her grandmother crying her father was being abusive keeping her from seeing her mother! Gary I&#039;d abusive and  controlling ! 

He is just trying to pilish him self as he was caught and impregnated a 20 yr old stripper ! He is not right due to his 
retirement not wanting to loose that as well as  his inheirited comingled funds ! 

I&#039;m sorry to have to say this (Susan!) but really his wrong to polish himself getting involved (when he abandoned his wife in a institution to get entirely a gain and move accounts around and be nothing mire than FOUL is sad! 

His  affair doesn&#039;t or shouldn&#039;t  be blogging or as Our Family had complained to Magellain Health Services (Remiving him from making any choice for the Mentally Ill !) 

He had 3 years prior had an order of protection placed on him as Gary in 2008 had become physically/Mentally abusive to my sister! The onset of his affair and at that time the girl was 18 yes old a stripped at Centerfolds!

So please refrain I from blogging Gary !
The Magellain health services in  
County removed him from the  committee
 he was  trying to polish him self as he struggles to not be fair in a division and a sour  hurtful divorce ! 

He is nothing more than a Monster caught and he was foul not showing on his  daughters prom night ! It was a tradition he with the two older children that are my sisters had been there but excusing his Goullness to be with his stripper who he bought a 2,500 bed for and lied in a mass to be abusive beating her up at 3:30 AM after my sister emailec the stripper! He had finallly never after the first 3 times he placed my sister in UPC as she was hurt he had lied to her doctor at desert vista that my sister hilucinated and made up a story! Dr.  Paul Berkowitz, PHD  4th time would not release my sister to go bsck into the relationship to be in Garys care as he had failed to seek counseling as agreed along with my sister! when she had confronted his infedelities he was nothing but very physically and emotionally abusive ! He beat her as he told her if she opened her mouth or remotely caught for anything that shall be divide fairly he would hurt her son! My
Sisters son is in the Air force MIlitary Police!  My sisters son  also was deployed in bagdad as his mother was being beat violently her last time on 3-3-2010 and after he abused my sister he pulled phone cords out and took her phone, car keys and she called the police as Gary abused the system and as the police made a domestic violence report he had one of their daughters petition her in Magellain as my sister was sick and had been for 4-6 months!  Gary had  badly treated her and was always annoyed her health was not right ! 

My sister once on a trip with Gary as she tried  to repair her mariage (she really loved him and my sister she  is devistated still cries as really she misses her family unit ! On January 3, 2011 two huge rumors had been surgically removed as the doctor thought they were cancer! 

My sister during s trip with Gary in California had been asked where she wanted to EAT and she said sushi and he was argiung and my sister commented sharp in resonse to his out hurray burst he would have ! My sister told him well you seem to like it with your stripper!

My sister was abandoned  in Cakifornia and just had been sick continually ! My sister  was dealing with a problem previously   doctors had miss diagnosed her as just bladder infections! 
My Sister   didn&#039;t know about her health abd scarrd for months always in pain 
 having back pain ! 
Gary had been cruel to to state my sister 
 was seeking attention and always sick!

My sister had two grape fruit size Tumors removed both the size of grapes fruits! 

Gary also remarried my sister to pasify her as he exited !

The entire sad part he spent more money on this stripper buying her shopping sprees , hair cuts, dinners and wined and dined a young new stripper as he hurt my sister in 20 yes bought her 6 Xmas gifts !

I thought how cruel ! She said he cared less and she bought the kids gifts and it hurt my sister to see him pour hi&#039; self into 20 yr old and careless all these years as he say you know you can just buy your own or never out any feeling into their kids gifts !

Never really taking his family out on special dinners or see their son as he graduated boot camp Airforce ! 

Gary  never Took the family on a vacation but flew 4 strippers all over! 

It&#039;s sad!
Gary please refrain from polishing an image that is obvious court record! Yes exhibits of your extramarital affairs can be found for review ( it&#039;s public record !) 
 
yes i had to fly my mentally Ill sister to Washington to get away as Gary was trying to steal her vehichle after taking her name off the title of a paid for vehicle ! 

Her son is gaining guardianship as we predicted that if he didn&#039;t Gary would find away to steal or take her settled amount )401k is hard to split and recoup! Three mariges he always married a 22 year old buy despised of the others before the were 30 years old!


Please out of respect Allow my post to remain ( there are two sides to every story!)

He is not a concerned love one!
He&#039;s concerned he will get nothing because the Jude had seen through him serving my sister in a h living Shelter and she chose to not live with family to keep them from the abusiveness

It&#039;s been almost 2 years since my sister was placed by Gary to sickly dispose of hid wife! Now her refusals to have him in her treatment are due the  her being really royaly abused by this man!

If confirmation is needed it is  public record !!  He diluberately stays in employed and now claims he can&#039;t work ! She had no medical insurance makes too much for her psychiatric medication ! 

He care less  about her (reslly!) his grandmother at a young age was placed into the Instiituon on  24th -Vanburen ! Abandoned !

My sister took care if his mother and his sick aunt as Gary selfishly  a college  student since 1979!

To defer student loans! 1992-1996 Gary collected un employment as he was a gullying student at ASU !

There is fat meek more but I will refrain and give it a rest! 

Please Garry you  already made a fool of your self and family (you are old enough tone the girls grand father !) 

Thanks for listening as i will appologize I have to correct a persons  actions as he is WRONG! 
DR



 

H


 fathered his child  up to to see his youngest 
D]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gary Keyfauver,</p>
<p>Just  going around participating in mental illness committees to polish your image I&#8217;d say a bit too late !<br />
 The truth is Gary had thrown  my sister in a mental onsititiin 3-4 times as he  had  an affair at 58 years old (the girl was the same age as their daughter (20yrs old!) </p>
<p>The girl was a stripper and Gary -SHAME on you! </p>
<p>Respect your family and stop this cover up mentality blogging sympathic words as you really spent around 43,000.00 to then dispose of a wife 16 years your Junior !</p>
<p>To everyone on this blog ! Gary Lee Keyfauver had an extratial affair and chose to have sexual relations with a girl that was a 20 yr old stripper !<br />
At his age he spent in godly amounts of money to trade in his 3rd wife !<br />
1. Mary Joann &#8211; was his first 10yrs<br />
2. Sharon Kay &#8211; was his second 7yrs<br />
3. My sister was the 3rd victim -20 yrs</p>
<p>  My sister was married to him from the young age of 23! She had a mental breakdown due to a Gary really having a sexual affair for 2 years! </p>
<p>They delegated he filed for divorce as she was institutionalized by HIM 3 -4 times as he tormented her ( she had tape recorded the cruel mental abuse and it&#8217;s needless to say still in litigation ! </p>
<p>Gary -Was laid off but lied to the court indicating that it was his wife&#8217;s fault he was let go from his work!<br />
He&#8217;s pathetic she is on disability and is really not healthy and has liver failure!</p>
<p>He had taken their titles to their vehicles changed out titles files for order of protcrection and a division had been placed with my sisters children ! </p>
<p>My sister has 3 children her son was I<br />
Deployed as Gary placed her in an institution as she caught him cheating ! </p>
<p>This man is only airing to polish his image!</p>
<p>Please refrain from doing that as my sister I&#8217;d say unhealthy as she was placed by Gary 3-4 times because she wanted to just take her life! To now have liver failure and Is on disability and he had caused her to loose her job in 2010!</p>
<p>He refuses to basically settle their youngest is 20yrs old and had already ran a year ago to her grandmother crying her father was being abusive keeping her from seeing her mother! Gary I&#8217;d abusive and  controlling ! </p>
<p>He is just trying to pilish him self as he was caught and impregnated a 20 yr old stripper ! He is not right due to his<br />
retirement not wanting to loose that as well as  his inheirited comingled funds ! </p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry to have to say this (Susan!) but really his wrong to polish himself getting involved (when he abandoned his wife in a institution to get entirely a gain and move accounts around and be nothing mire than FOUL is sad! </p>
<p>His  affair doesn&#8217;t or shouldn&#8217;t  be blogging or as Our Family had complained to Magellain Health Services (Remiving him from making any choice for the Mentally Ill !) </p>
<p>He had 3 years prior had an order of protection placed on him as Gary in 2008 had become physically/Mentally abusive to my sister! The onset of his affair and at that time the girl was 18 yes old a stripped at Centerfolds!</p>
<p>So please refrain I from blogging Gary !<br />
The Magellain health services in<br />
County removed him from the  committee<br />
 he was  trying to polish him self as he struggles to not be fair in a division and a sour  hurtful divorce ! </p>
<p>He is nothing more than a Monster caught and he was foul not showing on his  daughters prom night ! It was a tradition he with the two older children that are my sisters had been there but excusing his Goullness to be with his stripper who he bought a 2,500 bed for and lied in a mass to be abusive beating her up at 3:30 AM after my sister emailec the stripper! He had finallly never after the first 3 times he placed my sister in UPC as she was hurt he had lied to her doctor at desert vista that my sister hilucinated and made up a story! Dr.  Paul Berkowitz, PHD  4th time would not release my sister to go bsck into the relationship to be in Garys care as he had failed to seek counseling as agreed along with my sister! when she had confronted his infedelities he was nothing but very physically and emotionally abusive ! He beat her as he told her if she opened her mouth or remotely caught for anything that shall be divide fairly he would hurt her son! My<br />
Sisters son is in the Air force MIlitary Police!  My sisters son  also was deployed in bagdad as his mother was being beat violently her last time on 3-3-2010 and after he abused my sister he pulled phone cords out and took her phone, car keys and she called the police as Gary abused the system and as the police made a domestic violence report he had one of their daughters petition her in Magellain as my sister was sick and had been for 4-6 months!  Gary had  badly treated her and was always annoyed her health was not right ! </p>
<p>My sister once on a trip with Gary as she tried  to repair her mariage (she really loved him and my sister she  is devistated still cries as really she misses her family unit ! On January 3, 2011 two huge rumors had been surgically removed as the doctor thought they were cancer! </p>
<p>My sister during s trip with Gary in California had been asked where she wanted to EAT and she said sushi and he was argiung and my sister commented sharp in resonse to his out hurray burst he would have ! My sister told him well you seem to like it with your stripper!</p>
<p>My sister was abandoned  in Cakifornia and just had been sick continually ! My sister  was dealing with a problem previously   doctors had miss diagnosed her as just bladder infections!<br />
My Sister   didn&#8217;t know about her health abd scarrd for months always in pain<br />
 having back pain !<br />
Gary had been cruel to to state my sister<br />
 was seeking attention and always sick!</p>
<p>My sister had two grape fruit size Tumors removed both the size of grapes fruits! </p>
<p>Gary also remarried my sister to pasify her as he exited !</p>
<p>The entire sad part he spent more money on this stripper buying her shopping sprees , hair cuts, dinners and wined and dined a young new stripper as he hurt my sister in 20 yes bought her 6 Xmas gifts !</p>
<p>I thought how cruel ! She said he cared less and she bought the kids gifts and it hurt my sister to see him pour hi&#8217; self into 20 yr old and careless all these years as he say you know you can just buy your own or never out any feeling into their kids gifts !</p>
<p>Never really taking his family out on special dinners or see their son as he graduated boot camp Airforce ! </p>
<p>Gary  never Took the family on a vacation but flew 4 strippers all over! </p>
<p>It&#8217;s sad!<br />
Gary please refrain from polishing an image that is obvious court record! Yes exhibits of your extramarital affairs can be found for review ( it&#8217;s public record !) </p>
<p>yes i had to fly my mentally Ill sister to Washington to get away as Gary was trying to steal her vehichle after taking her name off the title of a paid for vehicle ! </p>
<p>Her son is gaining guardianship as we predicted that if he didn&#8217;t Gary would find away to steal or take her settled amount )401k is hard to split and recoup! Three mariges he always married a 22 year old buy despised of the others before the were 30 years old!</p>
<p>Please out of respect Allow my post to remain ( there are two sides to every story!)</p>
<p>He is not a concerned love one!<br />
He&#8217;s concerned he will get nothing because the Jude had seen through him serving my sister in a h living Shelter and she chose to not live with family to keep them from the abusiveness</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been almost 2 years since my sister was placed by Gary to sickly dispose of hid wife! Now her refusals to have him in her treatment are due the  her being really royaly abused by this man!</p>
<p>If confirmation is needed it is  public record !!  He diluberately stays in employed and now claims he can&#8217;t work ! She had no medical insurance makes too much for her psychiatric medication ! </p>
<p>He care less  about her (reslly!) his grandmother at a young age was placed into the Instiituon on  24th -Vanburen ! Abandoned !</p>
<p>My sister took care if his mother and his sick aunt as Gary selfishly  a college  student since 1979!</p>
<p>To defer student loans! 1992-1996 Gary collected un employment as he was a gullying student at ASU !</p>
<p>There is fat meek more but I will refrain and give it a rest! </p>
<p>Please Garry you  already made a fool of your self and family (you are old enough tone the girls grand father !) </p>
<p>Thanks for listening as i will appologize I have to correct a persons  actions as he is WRONG!<br />
DR</p>
<p>H</p>
<p> fathered his child  up to to see his youngest<br />
D</p>
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		<title>Comment on Stages of Coping by P Nobles</title>
		<link>http://family-4-family.com/stages-of-dealing/#comment-347</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[P Nobles]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Oct 2011 13:26:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Reality has set in...looking for answers, guidance, direction...hope! i found this site. I am so thankful. I am mostly to the point that i want to turn my back and leave. I feel so weary and ill prepared for what lies ahead. I feel foolish because now that i know what is going on, i think it has ALWAYS been there. Ugh! How could i have been so blind? Never imagined the &quot;problems&quot; were mental illness. Now I fear that my children will be mentally ill too. Please God! i hope not! i see the devestation that it has caused me and my family. The subtle things...all the subtle things over the years...that didn&#039;t make sense...now they make sense. I realize the mental illness has been the undertoe in my husband&#039;s inabilities, in the unexplained, reoccuring problems in my marriage, the unhappiness in my family!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reality has set in&#8230;looking for answers, guidance, direction&#8230;hope! i found this site. I am so thankful. I am mostly to the point that i want to turn my back and leave. I feel so weary and ill prepared for what lies ahead. I feel foolish because now that i know what is going on, i think it has ALWAYS been there. Ugh! How could i have been so blind? Never imagined the &#8220;problems&#8221; were mental illness. Now I fear that my children will be mentally ill too. Please God! i hope not! i see the devestation that it has caused me and my family. The subtle things&#8230;all the subtle things over the years&#8230;that didn&#8217;t make sense&#8230;now they make sense. I realize the mental illness has been the undertoe in my husband&#8217;s inabilities, in the unexplained, reoccuring problems in my marriage, the unhappiness in my family!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Stages of Coping by Susan Stewart</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Susan Stewart]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 14:59:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m glad you were blessed. Susan]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m glad you were blessed. Susan</p>
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		<title>Comment on If I&#8217;d Only Known by Susan Stewart</title>
		<link>http://family-4-family.com/2011/01/11/if-id-only-known/#comment-324</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Susan Stewart]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 14:58:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gary, California has a law that requires doctors, ERs, and other  professional to listen to family members about a persons history. Of course, there&#039;s no way to require the professional to take heed. 

HIPPA is another huge problem. While my son lived in my home, and was in treatment, I couldn&#039;t even find out when his appointments were so I could remind him, without written permission. That permission could be revoked at any time. Further, family members have been left sitting on a bench outside the pysch wing while a unknown, government-paid attorney fights for the ill family member to released -- dangerous or not. I&#039;ve seen family members sit all day, only to find out that their loved one had been release without the judge hearing their information.

There are so many ways that the mental health system is broken. Ignoring and marginalizing family members tops the list, in my opinion.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gary, California has a law that requires doctors, ERs, and other  professional to listen to family members about a persons history. Of course, there&#8217;s no way to require the professional to take heed. </p>
<p>HIPPA is another huge problem. While my son lived in my home, and was in treatment, I couldn&#8217;t even find out when his appointments were so I could remind him, without written permission. That permission could be revoked at any time. Further, family members have been left sitting on a bench outside the pysch wing while a unknown, government-paid attorney fights for the ill family member to released &#8212; dangerous or not. I&#8217;ve seen family members sit all day, only to find out that their loved one had been release without the judge hearing their information.</p>
<p>There are so many ways that the mental health system is broken. Ignoring and marginalizing family members tops the list, in my opinion.</p>
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